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"It's just human. We all have the jungle inside of us. We all have wants and needs and desires, strange as they may seem. If you stop to think about it, we're all pretty creative, cooking up all these fantasies. It's like a kind of poetry." Diane Frolov and Andrew Schneider, Northern Exposure, Mister Sandman, 1994. This is an adult site
What You Will Find Here My site promotes the idea of women looking "good enough to eat"; the fantasy of anticipation and preparation, of squeezing soft pliable flesh and arranging a compliant and consensual woman on a dinner table. I want to be part of a mutually erotic experience, a harmless role-play in which both (or all) are both willing and informed participants. I am aroused by being both the victim and the eater, in either role, though, a great deal depends on the trust between those involved. Like all good erotic situations, all involved need to be in on the game for it to work best. What You Will NOT Find Here This is a site dealing with fetish erotica. It is not a site concerned with cannibalism in the real world, nor the realism of cannibalism. I have no wish to actually eat someone, nor to promote the idea of such, and if that is your goal then you are on the wrong site. You will not find snuff on this site, and you will not find rape, mutilation or pictures of real cannibalism.
Gynophagia, or, "Erotic Cannibalism? What the Hell?" Yes, I know if sounds bizarre, if not downright outlandish. It is not a fantasy most people have heard of, and doesn't support mainstream magazines or fetish clubs. Yet it is completely harmless and simply an offshoot of the BDSM (Bondage, Domination, Sado-Masochism) fetish, and has numerous websites and fans. Most people are uncomfortable with the idea initially because real cannibalism concerns eating dead people, and has all the associated killing and suffering together with a ghoulishly macabre real-life history. Some notorious killers have eaten part of their victims, people have had to resort to cannibalism in desperate and traumatic survival situations and the whole real life cannibal idea attracts an understandable negative reputation. This site is not concerned with real cannibalism. My site, and my fetish, have as much to do with real-life cannibalism as Miss Whiplash has with flogging people to death in some death camp. In no conceivable way do I condone killing or mutilation. Why "Gynophage" and why is it not cannibalism? Essentially, Gynophagia is a sexual fetish which involves an erotic combination of food and sex. It consists of a submissive female partner (if male, it is more usually called "Androphage", or sometimes "FemCann" when a man is submissive to a woman), and the dominant partner is pretending that he or she is going to eat the submissive one. This can involve all manner of unusual foreplay, including but not limited to; describing the "victim" in culinary terms, decorating the body with food, licking, biting, fondling and so on. It is certainly very similar in essence to cannibalism, and is often referred to as such. However, whereas cannibalism involves actual eating, the Gynophage fetish never goes that far. The difference is very important and this is why I make the distinction. Gynophage is the role-play, the "let's pretend", whereas cannibalism is real and an ugly part of life. To go from cannibalism to Gynophagia we have to take out all the unpleasantness; the suffering, the death, the blood, the smells, and quite probably the actual taste. Think of a man wanting his partner to dress as a schoolgirl. He doesn't actually want her to be a minor, with acne overactive glands and an immature outlook. He doesn't want her to do schoolwork and have skinned knees and crushes on teenage boys. He certainly doesn't want her parents checking up on her in the middle of the night. In other words, he only wants the bits from the pretend schoolgirl situation that support his fantasy and wants to ignore the rest. Well, Gynophagia does the same with cannibalism. The fantasy is not the reality. So, what's the score then? I like a woman's body. I like to look and I like to touch, no matter what shape or size. At some point in my past, I began to picture attractive women naked and dressed up with parsley behind their ears and oil drizzled over their body. An apple in their mouths might very well feature. They are laid out before me, laid out for my pleasure. They are helpless, my victim, and yet not suffering (and certainly very much alive). I have been fortunate enough to find several partners over the years who were willing (and eager) to play along with my bedroom fantasies, and I can attest that they are all very much alive and well (and in one piece)! I also enjoy playing the role of the food, where I am the one being prepared to be served up. In this role it is I who am being submissive, I am the one whose body is the object of desire, and I am the one who is bitten and caressed. I too, am in one piece. It is an extension of the food fantasy, where food is eaten from your partner's body, but taken one step further. It is an extension of the BDSM biting fantasy, where you bite and nibble, but taken one step further. It is consensual Domination. It is appreciation of the female body. It is oral sex. It is Gynophagia. And it is, above all, only fantasy. Read this article for an impartial third-party view from the journalist Katherine Gates. "Pornography is about domination. Erotica is about mutuality." Gloria Steinem
I am a lesbian and some of my work reflects this. While I do not believe it makes the subject any more or less erotic, it is something to be borne on mind before deciding to go further into the site. If homosexuality makes you uncomfortable, of if you expect heterosexual material then you are likely to be disappointed. Please note that this means I am not going to be very open to certain suggestions. "Women who love women are Lesbians. Men, because they can only think of women in sexual terms, define Lesbian as sex between women." Rita Mae Brown
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