Appreciation of women

Where I cast a wry glance over womankind and espouse their virtues. 

"Women are always beautiful."

Ville Valo

"Women really do rule the world. They just haven't figured it out yet. When they do, and they will, we're all in big big trouble."

"Doctor" Leon of drleons.com

"I have an idea that the phrase "weaker sex" was coined by some woman to disarm some man she was preparing to overwhelm."

Ogden Nash

"If women didn't exist, all the money in the world would have no meaning."

Aristotle Onassis

"The people I'm furious with are the women's liberationists. They keep getting on soapboxes and proclaiming women are brighter than men. That's true, but it should be kept quiet or it ruins the whole racket."

Anita Loos

"I myself have never been able to find out precisely what feminism is: I only know that people call me a feminist whenever I express sentiments that differentiate me from a doormat or a prostitute."

Rebecca West

Because I am a woman, I must make unusual efforts to succeed. If I fail, no one will say, "She doesn't have what it takes." They will say "Women don't have what it takes.""

Clare Boothe Luce

Yes, I am biased. As a woman I am naturally correct in thinking that my own sex is superior... This is not going to sit comfortably with the Male Supremacists out there, but they can trundle off and start their own websites or just take my gentle teasing in the spirit in which it is meant. As I said at the beginning of this site, I am interested in mutuality, with both parties being in control equally, and that sentiment swings both ways.

Don't be worried, though I am a feminist I am not a militant one and in any case, I shall leave out the political and instead concentrate on the spiritual and physical, just remember that both are as important to me for my enjoyment of the fetish, which is one important reason I have no truck with the darker side of things. 

Enough of this preamble. Let's get on with it.

The Spirit of Woman

"Women are never stronger than when they arm themselves with their weakness."

Marie de Vichy-Chamrond, Marquise du Deffand

"Men look at themselves in mirrors. Women look for themselves."

Elissa Melamed

This is an adult site, featuring women exposing their bodies to public gaze for our admiration and sexual interest. Given that, I feel a word or two about choice and empowerment are in order here.

A woman's body is hers to do with as she wishes. Should a woman choose that her body is something she does not wish to share with others, then she has as much right to that choice as the woman who decides that her body is something to be shown to all and sundry. Why criticise or praise the one yet not the other? Moral choice is so personal that an entire library of studies might not change someone's essential ideas of what is "right" and "wrong". All we can do is accept their choice for what it is, and make our own choices.

In that vein, just because a woman enjoys taking off her clothing it does not make her a slut or whore. Nakedness is not sexual promiscuity, and does not point to a loose moral sexual code. Please remember that when viewing the pictures here, the women should be appreciated for their willingness to pose for us and not dismissed as being somehow "cheap". On the contrary, a woman choosing (and I mean a genuine choice, not one made under duress) to empower herself by making what she can of her own body is to be admired and congratulated.

Remember that female empowerment is about having a choice, not about being restricted by just another moral standpoint.

The Body of Woman

"And I loved the whole idea behind the story, which is that you're beautiful, so don't let other people tell you that you're not just because you don't look like the people in magazines. Or because you're not that weird body image that's out there right now."

Mike Myers

"The body is meant to be seen, not all covered up."

Marilyn Monroe

"The most popular image of the female despite the exigencies of the clothing trade is all boobs and buttocks, a hallucinating sequence of parabolae and bulges."

Germaine Greer

The body is a beautiful thing, whether old, young, fat, thin, black, white, or whatever. Flesh is soft and warm to the touch, the smell of a woman's body is arousing and compelling (unless doused in strong scent or, worse, unwashed). How many things would you rather run your hands along than a human body? 

For me, beauty is beauty whether it is wrapped in an abundance of flesh or just enough to keep the bones from peeking through. You can have beautiful fat people, beautiful thin people and beautiful people in between, just as you have ugly people in all those sizes.

If pressed, however, My favourite body shape would be short and plump. Yet now I have defined it, I can recall numerous bodies I have appreciated that were neither short nor plump. It just goes to show.

Forgive me if I do not cover your favourite part of the anatomy; everyone has different tastes and I am no exception. If I cover feet I would probably ignore the toes, if I included the arms there would be those disappointed I didn't mention the forearm specifically. I would just say, however, that any part of the body can be sexy in the right circumstances and I would never dismiss any single part. In particular, the sexiest part is often simply that place your partner loves you to concentrate on!

The Face

"What is a face, really? Its own photo? Its make-up? Or is it a face as painted by such or such a painter? That which is in front? Inside? Behind? And the rest? Doesn't everyone look at himself in his own particular way? Deformations simply do not exist."

Pablo Picasso

The face is the window to the soul, so it is said. It is one of the first things you notice about another person, and it can set the tone for your reaction to that person. A pretty face or a winning smile makes you want to please, whereas a frown will put your guard up.

A woman's face does not need to be perfect to be attractive, in fact I prefer faces that are somewhat quirky and imperfect. A face that is interesting has more long-term appeal than one which is bland.

My perfect face? I haven't got one, a lot of the time the face I fall for is fronting a woman with a devastating personality and possibly a killer body to match. The face becomes more attractive as I see more of the person's virtues. A face from Hollywood that has always appealed is Lauren Bacall. Gods that woman is sexy!

In the realm of the Gynophage, the face is as much the lure as it is in any sexual encounter. The face of an attractive victim adds humanity to what is otherwise a nameless piece of meat, and adds a frisson of pleasure to the whole experience. One reason my fantasy rarely goes beyond the anticipation is that the face's beauty is only truly seen when it is alive.

Some face-licking might be okay, but personally I find it uncomfortable. In any case, few Gynophage scenarios involve actually eating the face, more usually we are talking about nibbling of ears and necks, both of which should be pursued with all enthusiasm! Vampire-like biting of the throat is excellent, but try to bear in mind that adult women rarely want to carry lovebites ("Hickeys") around with them. Even fewer want damaged neck muscles so keep those bites under control.

The Breasts

"Some people think having large breasts makes a woman stupid. Actually, it's quite the opposite: a woman having large breasts makes men stupid."

Rita Rudner

The breasts. Two fatty glandular sacks that women keep tightly under wraps yet are the focus of so much attention, and so much effort goes into unwrapping them.

Breasts are beautiful things, they are pliable and warm, soft and smooth. They have nipples which, properly manipulated, can drive a woman (or man) wild. They give a woman her shape and something of her definition. A man does not have breasts (not in the classic sense anyway) and so they are uniquely female in nature. They are at once delicate and powerful and I love them.

Gynophage-wise, breasts are a largely a disappointment. No meat is to be found in a breast, and the glands will add a bitterness that would spoil a meal. However, luckily we are dealing in fantasy here so the breast becomes once again a prize for the gynophage. Whether sliced, boiled or stuffed, or used as basting fat for elsewhere, we can enjoy the oral pleasure associated with the breast without having to concern ourselves about the nasty realities.

Breasts are very sensitive parts of the body! It needs to be said again. Do not start biting a woman's breasts unless she has specifically told you that you can. Gentle nibbling is wonderful, especially when combined with licking and mouthing, but try to keep your teeth in check. A low-pressure bite is usually fine, but for heaven's sake don't try anything stronger unless you want a clout round the head..

The Belly

"I have a little bit of belly, a tiny bit of pooch. It's the one thing I don't want to lose. I like having some softness."

Nicole Kidman

The belly is much-maligned in our current world. It is seen as a shameful thing and yet it is so sexy in all its forms. A belly is designed to be softly curved, it is meant to have a bit of fat, so the ultra-flat stomachs seen in the media are as unnatural as having green skin. Of course, the airbrush has a lot to answer for there.

I like a belly to be rounded, either on a man or on a woman. Big bellies do not worry me either, the flesh is still as soft and beautiful as ever. I love to run my hands and tongue over a belly, I delight in it's contours and I love the ticklishness of the belly button.

When dealing with the fetish, the belly is a natural focus. Not only on our own (as the eater), but also on that of the victim. When playing the role of victim, many is the time I have squirmed with delight as my partner rubs my belly with flavoured oils, or pretends to draw the lines where she will cut out belly loin steaks.

The belly is a lovely palette for you to explore. It is sensitive and an erogenous zone, though one often overlooked or simply forgotten. Apart from the obvious connection with the genitals and boobs, the belly ought to be given some attention by itself. Nibbling and licking are very nice for your partner, eating food directly from the belly will stimulate both of you. Just bear in mind that the navel can be used for good or bad - a little stimulation is lovely, but it can also become downright uncomfortable and ticklish.

The Bottom

"My bottom is so big it's got its own gravitational field."

Carole Vorderman

"The essence of life is the smile of round female bottoms, under the shadow of cosmic boredom."

Guy de Maupassant

Well I will start by voicing my own bias here, I am a butt-lover through and through. I'll try to keep myself in check, but I don't promise anything!

Yes, the bottom is poetry made flesh. It is softly curved, plump and weighty, and smoothly tactile. I'll keep from getting too deep into this (ahem) for the sake of public decency, but let's just mention that women have G-spots on and around more than one hole.

Bottoms are almost designed to be squeezed, made for touching and so well positioned that they bounce and sway in a manner calculated to make me breathless even when the owner is not aware she is doing so. With the right clothing, the bottom is almost uniquely admirable when the woman is fully and respectfully dressed.

Once more reality will try to spoil things for the fantasy Gynophage. Bottoms are mostly fat, unless the owner is an athlete or so skinny as to be unhealthy. As with breasts, however, fantasy comes to our rescue with visions of thick rump steaks and well-marbled rump roasts. Also, as far as meat distribution goes, only the thighs can beat the bottom with the proportion of muscle.

A happy coincidence with the bottom is that it is relatively insensitive compared with many other erogenous areas. This means you can spank, bite or squeeze it as roughly as your partner can stand. Stimulation of the buttocks also releases endorphins, which give the pleasure response, though just remember that pain is still pain. Try to find the happy medium when pretending to bite down on a juicy big rump - remember that too much pressure can leave lasting damage!

The Genitals

"Really that little dealybob is too far away from the hole. It should be built right in."

Loretta Lynn

Well what needs to be said. Nothing much to look at, it has to be pointed out, the whole vulva apparatus is almost shyly tucked away (barring acrobatic contortions), awkward to get at in most situations, and not exactly built for ease of access even in when lying down, the female genitalia are nonetheless a prize worth all the effort in getting there. The smell (okay, we are talking clean smell here), the feel, the experience of getting inside the woman you are with, it all adds up to something unmatched. Sure, I am biased, so sue me. 

Added to your fun is hers. While you are rummaging and fiddling, she is getting even more fun that you. God bless evolution/the Creator/the Alien scientists for putting all those nerve endings in such a compact space. Move forward and the clitoris (the only anatomical organ provided purely for sexual pleasure, mark you) beckons, move back and the anus winks at you. In between you have the vagina itself, the perineum and urethra. All of it is super-sensitive and is there to be taken advantage of by those who know their way. If you don't know your way? Get a map!

Okay, reality again bites us hard here. The tissue around the genital area is not very muscular and so will not contain anything "meaty". The mons pubis is a fatty pad, the clitoris and labia majora are essentially just skin. The perineum is certainly muscular, but that is drifting away from the genitals as mostly represented (though unfairly). The internal anatomy is partly muscular, but again that is drifting. Personally, internal organs of any type do not feature in my fantasy,

Again, though, imagination brings us through. The delicate tissue of the vulva, combined with it's smooth wet walls, is particularly appetising and cries out for oral contact in a way no other part of the body does (the mouth excepted). It is but a short and happy step from oral sex to fantasies of eating.

As far as role-play goes, go for it! Very few women will object to oral stimulation of their genitals (though some might be a bit reluctant of having their anus so treated - more fool them I say). Even if you are playing the fetish through by yourself, this is an area you can happily indulge without freaking out a unsuspecting partner. Your enthusiastic munching and nibbling will be very welcome, just remember that the clitoris is very sensitive so teeth and hard sucking are to be used only with extreme care! Also remember that the clitoris is not an on-off switch. Get it stimulated way before actual contact and you are doing it right; dive straight in and you might get a different reaction.

The Legs

"Darling, the legs aren't so beautiful, I just know what to do with them."

Marlene Dietrich

Whether you prefer long and slim or well-rounded, legs are an undeniably important part of a woman's sexual display. Clad in boots or high heels the legs become symbolic of domination for the foot-fetishist, unadorned and draped casually over the arm of a chair and they become the sign of the sexual predator. Even clothed they have their signals, from fishnet stockings to clinging skirts, from suspender belts to white ankle socks, legs play an important role in the signals we give out.

All along their length, the legs are sensitive. Run a finger or tongue up anywhere on the woman's leg (apart, possibly, from the kneecap) and the sensation goes straight to the pleasure zones. Lightly brush the ankle or kiss the back of the knee, blow softly on the inner thigh or nibble the hip, the legs are a gateway to the libido. It helps, also, that you may follow the legs all the way up to areas that can be even more fun!

Of course, the legs are a bounty for the Gynophage. Plump hams or shapely hocks (or feet, for those so inclined), and right up to the glory of  the haunch, the legs are a favourite.

Licking and nibbling along the length of the leg is a wonderful Gynophage game, pleasurable for both people. Similarly, rubbing oils (olive oil is good if you have old sheets underneath) on the leg is both fun, erotic, and actually good for the skin too. Legs, like the buttocks, are also fairly tough so you can bite and squeeze more firmly than on many other erogenous zones..